From Injections to Introspection

How do you know when “enough is enough”? 

This question has weighed heavily on my mind since last Friday when we learned that our last embryo did not implant. 

Were we shocked? 

Absolutely. 

Why? After successfully becoming pregnant in March, we believed we were finally on the path to building our family—until the heartbreaking loss of our twins.

Deciding to step away from IVF has proven more challenging than I anticipated. I’ve come to realize there isn’t a one-size-fits-all answer to this infertility journey. Some couples may undergo seven cycles of IVF, while others choose to embrace a child-free life or pursue adoption. 

After 13 grueling months of fertility treatments, filled with multiple surgeries, daily injections, egg retrievals, a difficult battle with OHSS, and an array of medications, I find a glimmer of freedom nestled between my heartache and my hope.

For now, Daniel and I have chosen to step back from IVF. Not only due to the financial and physical toll it has taken on us but primarily for our emotional well-being.

Sadly, not every story concludes with the joyful ending we had prayed for, but we’ve come to understand that ultimately, it’s about surrendering to God’s will for our lives.

Thank you to everyone who has walked alongside us on this journey. It does not go unnoticed. For those who have donated, called, sent flowers, gifts, meals, or offered a comforting hug, your kindness has meant the world to us.

Thank you,

Carolyn & Daniel